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The joys, sadnesses, and paradoxes of relationships based on love
share many similarities, yet each has its own unique aspect as
well. Lesbian relationships explored in Women Like Us portray
stories of women who have lived their lives and, sooner or later,
lived them comfortably in the shadow of society's expectations.
Sixteen British lesbians, ranging in age from 50 to over 80,
talk about their lives and their experiences, some of which date
back to the 1920s. These women disarmingly talk about how they
feel about themselves and their sexuality and how, over the
decades, they have dealt with others who perceive their sexual
orientation as deviant, immoral behavior. After experiencing an
initial sexual attraction to another woman, many of these
lesbians went on to a heterosexual marriage of 20 to 30 years,
complete with children, not because that was what they wanted but
because that was what society expected, and they were loathe not
to conform. But before, during, and after these conventional
marriages, each woman found other woman attractive, often only
one other woman. They discuss honestly and, in many cases,
charmingly, the first "chemical" attraction and intense passion
they feel for a loved one, and the feelings of jealousy (not so
much that their objet d'amour may leave them for another woman,
but that she might abscond with a man). Other topics include the
necessity to stay in the closet because of social pressures, the
apprehension about being found out, the frustrations of living in
a society that defines its women through the men they know, and
the thrill and anxiety experienced when they acknowledged their
gay love at age 40 or 50 and could face those feelings.
This very interesting, enlightening program begins with
reminiscences from the early decades of the century when lesbians
struggled because there were no obvious role models for them to
follow, not even any printed materials readily accessible. It
ends decades later on a happy, optimistic note, as women discuss
the breakthroughs that have been made both privately and
publicly. Suitable for any age group in which homosexuality is
discussed, this video is, unfortunately, very expensive. Highly
recommended.
Women Like Us

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